We both want the kids
My husband and I have decided that it just isn’t working out for us, and we both agree that we should get a divorce. Unfortunately, that seems to be the only thing we agree on. I might be willing to give him his way with some things, but he is not getting sole custody of the kids, which he says he wants. I have been staying at home to take care of them since they were born, so this issue is making us go through the process of a contested divorce. There is no way I am giving them up without a fight.